Your Guide to Mindfulness

Life's a whirlwind, right? Constantly bombarded with stuff – information, deadlines, notifications... Our brains are like hamsters on a wheel, spinning from one thought to the next, leaving us stressed and disconnected from what's happening right now. That's where mindfulness comes in. It's like a reset button for your mind, helping you reclaim your focus, find some inner chill, and just feel better overall.

Mindfulness is basically about being present. Like, really present. You focus on what's happening right now, acknowledging your feelings, thoughts, and what your body's telling you without judging any of it. It's not about having a blank mind – that's impossible! It's about noticing your thoughts and feelings without getting swept away by them.
There are many benefits to practicing mindfulness. Regular mindfulness practice can lower your stress levels. Focusing on the present moment helps quiet that inner critic and worry-wart in your head. Mindfulness can sharpen your focus. It trains your brain to ignore distractions and stay on task, which is great for concentration. Practicing mindfulness can also boost your self-awareness. Paying attention to your thoughts, feelings, and body gives you a better understanding of yourself. Mindfulness can help you manage your emotions: You learn to observe your emotions without judgment, so you can respond better instead of just reacting. The act of being mindful can also improve your relationships. Being present in your interactions makes communication easier and strengthens your connections with people. Mindfulness can help you feel happier by bringing out feelings of gratitude, joy, and general contentment.
Mindfulness is easy-peasy to practice in your everyday life. Here are a few simple ways to get started:

Mindful Breathing: Find a quiet spot, close your eyes, and just focus on your breath. Feel the air going in and out. When your mind wanders (and it will!), gently bring it back to your breath.
Body Scan: Lie down or sit comfortably and pay attention to different parts of your body, starting with your toes and moving up to your head. Just notice any sensations you feel, no judgment.
Mindful Walking: Pay attention to how your feet feel hitting the ground when you walk. Notice the sights, sounds, and smells around you.
Mindful Eating: Eat slowly and really savor each bite. Pay attention to the taste, texture, and smell of your food.
Mindful Listening: When someone's talking, actually listen to them. Don't interrupt or start planning your reply while they're still talking.
Mini Mindfulness Breaks: Take a few seconds throughout the day to just pause and notice what's going on around you and inside you. Observe your thoughts, feelings, and sensations without judging them.

When using mindfulness, there are some tricks to help you get the most out of it. Start small; even 5 or 10 minutes a day is a good start, and you can always add more time later. Be patient; it takes time to get good at mindfulness. Don't get frustrated if your mind wanders – it's normal! Just gently bring it back. Make it a habit; try to practice mindfulness at the same time each day so it becomes part of your routine. Be kind to yourself; don't beat yourself up about your thoughts or feelings, just observe them and accept them. Try different things; experiment with different mindfulness practices until you find what you like best.

Mindfulness isn't just for formal meditation. You can practice it anytime, anywhere. While you're doing dishes, commuting to work, or hanging out with friends, just be present in that moment. Mindfulness is a process, not a destination. It's all about learning, growing, and getting more connected to yourself and the world around you. So, relax, enjoy the ride, and see what mindfulness can do for you.

By Jessica Whittington, LCSW, CCTP-II, ADHD-CCSP, C-DBT

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Have you ever found yourself stuck in an exhausting cycle, feeling like no matter what you do,your situation doesn’t change or improve? If so, then you may have experienced learned helplessness, a condition that leaves people feeling powerless, hopeless, and stuck.

What is Learned Helplessness?
Learned helplessness is a psychological phenomenon that was first observed in a study with animals by psychologist Martin Seligman in the 1960s. In Seligman’s experiment, he exposed three different groups of animals to different conditions. The first group of animals were exposed to painful stimuli that they could stop by pressing a lever. In this first group, the animals quickly learned to press the lever to avoid the pain. However, in the second group of animals, they were exposed to the same painful stimuli with a lever, but the lever did not discontinue the pain. There was no way for these animals to prevent the pain and they eventually began to passively accept the circumstances. Even when presented with an opportunity to escape in the future, lowering the barrier to allow them to escape, they continued to stay and accept the pain. This is a display of learned helplessness.

In humans, this often displays as repeatedly facing negative or adverse situations that seem inescapable or uncontrollable. Overtime, this can lead us to believe that this is our life and that we are incapable of changing our circumstances, thus causing feelings of hopelessness, low self- esteem, and even depression.

The Effects of Learned Helplessness

Reduced Motivation: People that are feeling stuck can often lose the motivation to make changes or pursue goals. They may give up easily and avoid trying new things, fearing that they will fail again.

Increased Stress and Anxiety: Learned helplessness can often lead to chronic stress and anxiety. People may begin to worry about their inability to control outcomes, leading to feelings of dread and worry.

Depression: Entrapment and defeat are key characteristics that can drive depression. When people feel powerless to change their circumstances, it can lead to hopelessness, sadness, and a sense of futility.

Poor Self-Esteem: Persistent feelings of helplessness can break away at one’s self-esteem. People may internalize their struggles, believing they are incapable or unworthy of success.

Avoidance Behavior: A lot of times, people with learned helplessness may begin to avoid situations where they could potentially experience defeat in order to avoid the discomfort of failure. This can lead to withdrawing from social activities, work, or personal growth opportunities.

How Do You Overcome Learned Helplessness?

1. Reframe Your Thought Patterns: It is recommended that you practice identifying and challenging the negative beliefs that drive the feeling of helplessness. It is important to practice replacing them with more realistic and empowering thoughts. Instead of thinking “I always fail,” try to replace that with “I might not succeed this time, but I can learn from it and try again.”

2. Focus on Small Wins: Break down large goals into smaller, manageable steps to encourage a feeling of accomplishment and build self-confidence. Celebrate small victories, even if they seem minor, to reinforce the idea that effort leads to positive outcomes.

3. Build Self-Efficacy: Self-efficacy refers to one’s belief in their ability to successful achieve a particular goal. It emphasizes one’s confidence in the capacity to use skills to overcome challenges. With learned helplessness, work on developing your belief in your ability to influence events in your life. Practice seeking out opportunities for learning and taking action, even when it feels uncomfortable.

4. Develop Coping Skills: Having a toolkit of healthy coping mechanisms is high recommended for everyone in managing stress, but especially in individuals struggling with learned helplessness. Coping mechanisms including mindfulness, self-care practices, and stress management techniques. These skills can help you handle difficult situations more effectively and reduce feelings of helplessness.

5. Seek Professional Help: If you realize that learned helplessness is severely impacting your life, it could be helpful to work with a licensed therapist in being a resource for overcoming helplessness.

 Breaking Free: Reclaim Your Power

Learned helplessness is not a life sentence—it’s a challenge that can be overcome with time and
effort. By understanding how it develops, working on changing your thought patterns, building
small wins, and seeking support, you can break free from the draining cycle of helplessness and
reclaim your personal power. Remember, every step forward, no matter how small, is progress
made and worth celebrating. You have the power to break free and live a life of growth,
confidence, and resilience!

By Brooklyn Davis, LCMHCA, LCAS
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#SelfEfficacy #BreakTheCycle #Healing

​Mental health is a critical aspect of our daily lives, extending beyond personal life and into the workplace. As most adults spend a substantial portion of their day at work, addressing mental health challenges in the workplace has become increasingly important. Employers play a crucial role in fostering supportive environments that not only help employees with their mental well-being but also enhance overall productivity and success of the organization.

The Influence of Mental Health on Workplace Performance
Employee mental health has a direct impact on various factors within an organization, including productivity, engagement, and job satisfaction. When mental health challenges arise, such as stress, anxiety, or depression, they can lead to decreased productivity, higher rates of absenteeism, and increased employee turnover. These outcomes can negatively affect the performance and reputation of the organization. In contrast, promoting a supportive work environment that prioritizes mental well-being can result in higher job satisfaction, increased productivity, and lower employee turnover rates, ultimately benefiting the business.

Prevalent Mental Health Challenges in the Workplace
Numerous factors contribute to mental health challenges within the workplace. Some common causes include heavy workloads and tight deadlines, creating high-pressure environments that can lead to stress, anxiety, and burnout. Difficulty maintaining a healthy work-life balance can also contribute to dissatisfaction and mental health issues. Additionally, interpersonal relationships and potential conflicts among colleagues can create an uncomfortable working environment, exacerbating mental health challenges. Lastly, job insecurity, such as fear of layoffs or inadequate job security, can contribute to anxiety and negatively impact mental well-being.

Strategies for Supporting Mental Health in the Workplace
To promote mental health and well-being in the workplace, employers can employ various strategies and initiatives. Mental health education is a critical component, as providing resources and training to educate employees on recognizing symptoms and seeking help can help create a more informed and supportive environment. Flexible work arrangements, such as flexible hours, telecommuting, or job-sharing options, can help employees maintain a healthy work-life balance.

Implementing Employee Assistance Programs (EAPs) can provide employees with confidential counseling services or referrals to address mental health concerns. Developing comprehensive mental health policies helps promote awareness and reduce the stigma associated with seeking help. Furthermore, encouraging open and inclusive communication is vital for creating a work environment where employees feel comfortable discussing mental health concerns without fear of judgment or repercussions.
Addressing mental health challenges in the workplace is vital for cultivating a supportive environment that benefits both employees and the organization. By prioritizing mental health, businesses can improve employee satisfaction, productivity, and retention rates, ultimately leading to long-term success and a healthier, happier workforce.

By Tandy Hale, LCMHC, ATR-BC, NCC

#MentalHealthAtWork #WorkplaceWellness #EmployeeWellbeing #SupportiveWorkCulture #WorkLifeBalance #Resilience #Productivity #EmployeeMentalHealth #ThrivingTeams #SelfCare

A still afternoon often conceals the complexity of internal thought processes. Sunlight may filter softly through a window, and a gentle breeze can brush against the curtains, yet persistent patterns of worry, anxiety, or self-doubt may quietly unfold in the mind. 
These repetitive narratives tend to arise without deliberate permission, are shaped by past experiences, and are reinforced over time. Such entrenched pathways direct thoughts along familiar, distressing routes. Research indicates that repeated cognitive habits lay down strong neural connections, making negative thought cycles feel natural and automatic (Beck, Rush, Shaw, & Emery, 1979).

Recognition stands as the initial and most pivotal step in breaking these loops. Rather than
waiting for a flash of insight, this process involves consciously identifying the exact moment
when distressing thoughts begin to emerge. Such awareness might reveal itself through
noticeable physical changes—an elevated heart rate, a tense jaw, or clenched fists—or it might
surface in subtler ways, such as a shift in mood or a spike in worry about a specific scenario. By
acknowledging this mental state, individuals take control of the moment, creating a decisive
pause. Metacognitive therapy methods place special emphasis on this pause, noting that
conscious observation of unhelpful mental chatter precedes effective changes in thinking (Wells,
2009).

A concrete, grounding technique can reinforce this moment of recognition. In many cases, a beadwork tool offers tactile feedback that helps redirect attention. Rolling beads through the fingers draws focus from the spiral of negative thoughts to a tangible object in the present. The
small sensation of the beads’ weight or texture provides enough interruption to prompt a
question: “Is this the path to continue following, or is there another option?” This space between thought and response allow for a reorientation toward a balanced perspective. By actively
choosing to pivot in a more constructive direction, neural pathways begin to reorganize,
ultimately weakening the hold of the old pattern over time (Davidson & McEwen, 2012).

Within this framework, compassion remains a core component. Instead of criticizing the self for
slipping into anxiety or rumination, a perspective of gentle inquiry invites reflection: “What
triggered this reaction, and how might it be approached differently?” This stance shifts away
from self-judgment, a habit often tied to entrenched negative beliefs and encourages empathy for personal struggles. Recent meta-analytic research on self-compassion-based interventions
supports the idea that responding to difficulties with kindness can help minimize the intensity of
negative thought cycles (Ferrari et al., 2019). Each instance of noticing and responding with understanding lays a foundation for greater resilience in future episodes.

Because ingrained patterns do not simply vanish, repeated redirection is essential for long-term
change. Each effort to identify and halt an old script contributes to new neural wiring that favors
mindfulness and adaptability. The small act of moving beads through the palms can evolve from
a simple grounding exercise into a life skill that fosters enduring emotional balance. Over time, individuals may discover that what once felt like a relentless cycle of anxious or self-defeating thinking has diminished in both strength and frequency.

However, these strategies—while invaluable—do not replace the counsel and care of
professional mental health services. Complex or severe conditions may require a comprehensive approach that includes therapy, medication, or other interventions tailored to individual needs.

Techniques such as grounding with beadwork and cultivating compassionate self-awareness
serve as meaningful supplements to formal treatment. When guided by qualified clinicians, these tools can significantly enhance an individual’s path toward greater stability, clarity, and overall well-being.

By Dr. Elvin Peace, PhD, LCMHC, LCAS

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References

Beck, A. T., Rush, A. J., Shaw, B. F., & Emery, G. (1979). Cognitive therapy of depression.
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Link: https://www.guilford.com/books/Cognitive-Therapy-of-Depression/Beck-Rush-Shaw-
Emery/9780898629194

Davidson, R. J., & McEwen, B. S. (2012). Social influences on neuroplasticity: Stress and
interventions to promote well-being. Nature Neuroscience, 15(5), 689–695.
Link: https://doi.org/10.1038/nn.3093

Ferrari, M., Hunt, C., Harrysunker, A., Abbott, M. J., Beath, A. P., & Einstein, D. A. (2019).
Self-compassion interventions and psychosocial outcomes: A meta-analysis of RCTs.
Mindfulness, 10(8), 1455–1473.
Link: https://doi.org/10.1007/s12671-019-01134-6

Wells, A. (2009). Metacognitive therapy for anxiety and depression. Guilford Press.
Link: https://www.guilford.com/books/Metacognitive-Therapy-for-Anxiety-and-
Depression/Adrian-Wells/9781606234341


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